Sexual problems experienced by women and sexual aversion today become the most searched and most talked-about issue on the internet.
Taboos about sexuality makes it difficult to talk such problems face to face. Therefore especially women are searching for answers about sexuality on the internet.
Well, What Disincline Women from Sexuality?
According to experts well-known reasons that disincline women from sexuality are as follows:
Lack of communication: Studies related to women’s sexual dysfunction has increased in recent years. Women sudden disincline from sexuality and fear of sexual intercourse while she was continuing a normal sex life is described as a problem.
Prof. Dr. Halim Hattat says, “Women’s most prominent complaints are dissatisfaction in touch, love, and communication. The problem is gathered around the problems of sexual attraction and desire.”
Testosterone deficiency: If there is testosterone deficiency in women which forms the sexual desire, “stimulating” and “unwillingness” problem occurs. It is possible to treat with both drugs and without drugs.
Antidepressant use: It reduces the sexual desire of most of the women although it does not have the same effect in everyone.
Birth control pills: Birth control pills may have different side effects. Such as anger, headache, weight gain and loss of sexual desire. These pills may play a role in reducing sexual desires in some women even it is not common.
Breast-feeding: The body secretes the hormone prolactin during breast feeding. This hormone also reduces the sexual desire. However the sexual desire starts to be the same in three months after birth.
Insomnia: Sleep is essential for us to gather energy. Insomnia has adverse effects on sexual desire. The body which can not get enough energy will also can not find the motivation for sex too.
Stress: Workload, stress related to education, family problems and diseases, deaths can play a role in reducing the sexual desire. Especially women are forced to have sexual intercourse while there are other things in their minds. Most women does not see sex as a solution when the stress rises.
Mismatch with partner: Differences can be seen as emotional and passion in each relationship. Therefore couples may stay away from the sex.
Dislike of the body: Women who do not like their bodies perceive themselves with their own eyes in the eyes of their partners. Therefore they may stay away from sex.
Societal pressures and taboos: Taboo of virginity especially adversely affect a woman’s sex life. Sexuality is used with “evil” and “sin” words since childhood and this situation may have become an obstacle for a woman. Particularly in Islamic countries this situation seems to be very effective in woman’s sexual desire.
HOW SEXUAL DISINCLINE WILL BE DIAGNOSED?
Hormonal and physical examination is done first for the diagnosis of female sexual dysfunction. The woman’s story about sexuality will be considered and weight problems, whether she is in menopause or not, psychological status, the relationship with her wife, and hygienic conditions will be examined too.