It is said that the most difficult years of marriage is the first years. It is not easy for two people from different lifestyles to share the same house, and the same responsibilities.
According to the statistics the majority of divorces occur in the first years of marriage. Well, there are hints that should be considered to last your marriage which you realized it with big dreams lifetime. Today we will share these tips with you.
Marriage Tips and Advice for Newlyweds
1- Develop a plan with your partner to create a powerful basis for your marriage.
This is very important for marriage. It can easily result in divorce without a strong basis for the marriage.
2- Learn how to communicate with your partner. The communication is one of the common problems that married couples face in their daily lives.
3- You must have reasonable and realistic expectations from the marriage. Know that marriage is not something like on movies.
4- Share your home works with your partner. Everyone should know what should be their responsibility. Also, if you have other responsibilities to be shared, share them by talking with each other.
5- Choose something you can grow together and connect together. Everyday spend effort deal with the thing you choose.
6- Learn how to live together and adopt a home life.
7- It is not easy to raise children! Waiting for at least one year for children is recommend by experts for the newly married couples.
8- Trust each other.
9- Learn about your married friends’ experiences.
10- Talk about everything with your partner.
11- Note that the first year is transitional and learning period for marriage.
12- Keep in mind that grass should be watered to keep them green.
13- Be independent and dependent.
14- Talk openly and clearly about the past and future financial issues. Agree on how to make the payment for student loans, credit card debt and your tax debt by talking together. In addition, your bank account will be separate or joint? Decide on these issues.
15- Learn to compromise with each other.
16- Learn about your new family and learn the best ways to establish a relationship with them.
17- Forgive each other if one of you may make mistake and learn not to make the same mistake over and over again.
18- Celebrate an important achievement and earning with rewards.
19- Touch, cuddle and kiss each other as often as possible.
20- Talk about financial goals make saving for a rainy day.
21- Spare time for yourself.
22- Perform discussions, disagreements, arguments in a mature and healthy way.
23- Never fight or argue in front of everyone.
25- While making huge purchases definitely talk to you partner first. Perform purchase in the event of your partner’s consent
26- Never use the divorce word.
27- Enjoy being newly married. You will not be newly married forever. But the happiness of being newly married can stay with you forever.
28- Be proud of your partner.
29- We recommend you to not buy a home in the first years of your marriage. Because a new house will bring different responsibilities together with it.
30- Sex is important. If you are very busy, schedule it. Make it to not forget this as well as to have an orderly manner sex life.