One of the most important reasons for break ups: Cheating on. Why men cheat on? Once a cheater always a cheater? Here’s the answer…
We all know some people who got divorced because of cheating or two people that broke up because of it or people who stay away from marriage just because to avoid being cheated on. Unfortunately, these examples keeps growing day by day. And this kind of situations do not belong to only one gender. Even if the deception seems to belong only men, the amount of women who cheat on their partners are a lot. Why people cheat on? Does the cheating one is actually the deceived one?
It is more common in married men
According to the experts men usually cheat on because they want new experiences sexually, and women cheat on because of the emotional reasons. And this kind of behavior is not a new problem. Cheating on was a very popular problem in relationships yesterday, and today it still has the same place in relationships. It is interesting that in researches when someone say “cheating on” both men and women think about the “men”. Because men are the potential guilty ones about this. And a lot of people think that cheating on does not fit on women. And another interesting fact is that the ratio of cheating between married people is much more bigger than the ratio between single couples. First of all if we talk about men, experts say that when man puts the ring on his finger, his testosterone level decreases and he just want to prove himself by keeping his excitement alive. And this is the summary that why the ratio of cheater men is higher than women.
It is harder for women to cheat
And when it comes to women, the scale is completely different. Cheating women ratio is smaller than men. And when she does, she feels in dilemma between her feelings and the society. And instead of having a one night stand, women tend to have a long-term, emotional relationship. According to the experts, if a women is not happy, there is a great chance for her to cheat on but this could be very different according to the woman’s personality. Not being happy, the intelligence of the new partner, not being satisfied, falling in love, the negligence of the partner, proving herself, revenging her partner and making a good career are some reasons that makes women tend to cheating on.
A man who suffered may not cheat on again
If a man suffered enough, has regrets, has something missing from her life, we may assume that he is not going to cheat again. Because people tend to decide on doing something according to their past experiences. It interestingly seems that the attitude like “he cheated on once, it is an addiction now” is the actual reason for people to cheat on again. Because the partner who has been cheated on has a huge feeling of insecurity and increases the controlling because she/he thinks that being cheated on is her/his fault.
Trying to control the partner for not cheated on again, gives the message to the other that “you are unfaithful and you may cheat on me again”. But we suggest that understanding the reasons that leaded to cheating and talking about the problems in the relationship honestly.